“I don’t like that man. I must get to know him better.” – Abraham Lincoln
In a workplace where employees strive to do their best and get ahead in their careers, it’s not uncommon to come across the occasional rivalry. While having an opponent may sound exciting to some, there are studies, such as one cited by Chad Brooks, a senior writer with Business News Daily, that have concluded that workplace rivalry created undue stress and hurt productivity. Some research subjects even reported trouble with management. Only 6 percent recounted positive effects of a workplace rivalry.
Mary Ellen Slater, career advice expert for Monster, claims that a sense of competition doesn’t have to hurt productivity. Instead, she says workers should use the rivalry as motivation to improve rather than give in to jealousy.
“If you can’t get the tension under control, find ways to distance yourself from your adversary,” Slater said. “Explore your options — from switching desks to switching companies — and remember that living — and working — well is the best revenge.”
Gavin J. Kilduff, Ph.D., an assistant professor of management and organizations at New York University and his colleagues studied rivalry in a paper called “The Psychology of Rivalry: A Relationally Dependent Analysis of Competition.” In their research, they found “competitors’ relationships [were] determined by their proximity, attributes, and prior competitive interactions, influencing the subjective intensity of rivalry between them …”
Rob Asghar, a management consultant and contributor with Forbes, provided advice for “handling your rivals, critics and other villains in your life:”
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Written by Nicholas Ruiz, Sovereign Health Group writer